Big list of kinks

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• Abduction as seduction (beloved captives)


• Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)


• Amazons and strong women (warrior women; women as soldiers, law enforcement figures, or leaders; goddesses; lesbians or dykes; quasi-masculine characteristics in general, such as a boyish body type: slim, athletic, and small-breasted; forcefulness or brusqueness)


• Anal penetration with foreign objects


• Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on)


• Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)


• Angst (see Emotional themes)


• Animalistic behaviors and characteristics, dominant (snarling; sniffing; biting; other claiming acts; territoriality; predatory stalking; cuffing; forcing the partner's neck down; claws and other features)


• Animalistic behaviors and characteristics, submissive (feral characters or behavior; domesticated pet behavior such as sitting at owner's foot and cheeking their thigh; purring; licking)


• Animal themes or fetishization (animalistic features; hirsutism as a fetish; tentacle sex; quasi animal forms such as centaurs, merfolk, intelligent dragons; pets, wild or domesticated; familiars)


• Anonymous sex (clubbing; glory-holes; alley sex; alien fertility rituals; one-night stands)


• Anti-heroes (sympathetic villains; villains with principles; noble demons; enemies who keep their word)


• Aphrodisiacs (see Intoxication and altered states)


• Asphyxiation (asphyxiophilia; autoerotic asphyxiation; scarfing; choking; breath play)


• Ass-play and/or fetishization (ass lifted in the air for penetration; emphasized by harness or blue jeans; ass slapping; spreading cheeks; rimming)


• Attention (singling someone out; treating someone specially in front of others; making a point of showing respect to or interest in someone who doesn't usually receive it; observing, studying, or analyzing someone to understand them)


• AUs (alternate characterizations and situations; sex between alternates of one character or between different characters; alternates as catalysts for realization of desire; role reversal; darker mirror universe characters; mistaken identity)


• Auctions (slave or slave charity)


• Bad boys (punks, rebels; see also Rogues)


• Bad girls (dirty girls; naughty schoolgirls; femme fatales)


• Bar and club scenes (dancing, cruising, etc)


• Baths and water (tubs or jacuzzis; hot springs; bath houses or steam rooms; the ocean; swimming pools; see also Washing; Shower sex)


• BDSM


• Beauty (movie-star looks; unearthly beauty; a character who is highly desired by many others; beauty as a barrier to approachability or as a cause for comparison and insecurity)


• Begging or offering (begging or pleading for mercy, for sexual release, to be taken; a character offering himself; neediness)


• Biological imperative (pon farr or mating drive; being in heat)


• Bisexuality


• Biting (marking, nipping, chewing)


• Blindness (see Voyeurism and vision themes)


• Blood (fetishization of wounds; blood-play; vampirism)


• Blow-jobs (oral sex, fellatio)


• Body modification (physical enhancements such as wetwear; alien transformations; scarification and piercing)


• Body swap


• Bodyguard scenarios (See also Protectiveness)


• Bondage


• Bonds (telepathic or empathic; psychic links; mating or soul bonds)


• Bottoming


• Branding (erotic or non-erotic)


• Breath (as a caress; hitching or ragged; indrawn breath or gasps; sighs)


• Brothels


• Bruises and other wounds


• Bukkake


• Celibacy (e.g., someone's celibacy as a challenge to seduction)


• Charisma (see Powers of attraction)


• Childish characters (brats; little princesses)


• Childlike characteristics (innocence and simplicity; trustingness; truth-speaking, playfulness; boyishness and mischievousness)


• Claiming or establishing ownership (private or public; by gesture, word, or ritual; with sex; with a collar and leash; with scent-marking or by biting)


• Clams (i.e., characters who are stoic, terse, repressed; see also Talking and communication issues; Silence)


• Climax (e.g., described in detail)


• Closeted partner(s) (see also Orientation issues; Society)


• Cock worship


• Collars (slave)


• Come-marking (letting it dry visibly on the skin)


• Coming in or on one's partner (in ass or mouth; in hair; on body; on face, i.e., facial)


• Conditioning (taming or breaking a character; training; brainwashing; Stockholm syndrome)


• Confessions (revelation of love/desire; of other secrets; truth or dare games. deathbed confessions; revealing truths when feverish)


• Courtesans or geishas


• Crush or unrequited love


• Cuddling (see Touch)


• Cunnilingus


• Dancing


• Deep-throating


• Dildos (dildo gags; harnesses; strap-ons; ritual phalluses)


• Discipline or punishment


• Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable)


• Docking


• Dominance and submission (See also Submission; Servitude; Master and slave, etc)


• Double penetration (anal, vaginal, or oral)


• Drugs (recreational drug use; alcoholism and sobriety)


• Ejaculate, come (heavy loads; pre-ejaculate slickness; messy orgasms)


• Emotional themes, emo-kink (angst; wallows; darkfic; emotional damage; psychological trauma; tragic pasts; broken characters; guilt and shame; mental instability; sadness and grief; abandonment or fear of same; characters who can't go home again; fear in general; nightmares; loneliness; broken-heartedness; failure; insecurity; self-hatred)


• Endearments (see Names)


• Erotic torture


• Exhibitionism


• Exposure (with or without eroticism; feeling physically exposed, such as with legs open; a woman's shirt being opened to expose her breasts; characters being forced to undress in public; someone opening a door on people having sex)


• Face-fucking (blow-job)


• Face-sitting (straddling for blow-job or cunnilingus)


• Falling (falling from grace; going bad; turning to the Dark Side; Faustian deals; succumbing to temptation or addiction; degradation and descent in general)


• Fantasies (shared or solitary; role-playing)


• Finger-fucking (as preparation, foreplay, accompaniment, or main act)


• First times (first time between two individuals; losing virginity/cherry; first time doing a particular act; first time with a particular gender)


• Fish out of water characters/scenarios


• Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)


• Food (feeding one's partner; romantic dinners; food as foreplay or flirting; food used during sex, such as whipped cream or chocolate)


• Forbidden pleasures (love affairs or trysts; in general, wanting someone or something that's expressly forbidden)


• Foreplay


• Friction or frottage (naked or clothed; masturbatory or with partner; cocks rubbing together; tribadism; intercrural sex; someone rubbing off on sheets while giving head or being fucked; itchiness and scratching; chafing clothes; friction while on horseback or riding a motorcycle; accidental contact)


• Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies)


• Fuck or die


• Gags (ball-gags, scarves, mouth bits, etc)


• Gentleness (tenderness; kindness; concern; gentle natures; characters who display sensitivity to fearful children, animals, the weak, etc; gentle responses at unexpected moments)


• Getaways (romantic weekends; tropical vacations; ski chalets)


• Girls (dancing girls; cat-girls; schoolgirls; bishoujo; magical girls; cheerleaders; see also Bad Girls; Good girls)


• Grunge (dirty and sweaty, needing a shower)


• Guns and gun-play (guns as fetish objects; gun-battles as flirting or foreplay)


• Hand-jobs


• Harems or seraglios


• Healing or comfort sex (post-rape or abuse; affirming life in the midst of death; captives turning to one another for comfort; one character soothing another who is deeply upset or fearful)


• Heat (hot lazy summer days; steamrooms; sweat-slick skin; tempers rising with the heat; urgent fucking a la Body Heat)


• Homosocial environments (i.e., all-male or all-female, such as prisons or harems)


• Hot spots (a special spot that make someone crazy when stimulated, such as the vampire spot on the neck, the backs of the knees, the inner arms, navel, or earlobes)


• Humiliation (erotic or non-erotic)


• Humor as a mask (characters who hide pain behind humor)


• Hurt/comfort (emotional and/or physical, including torture of all kinds and degrees, and any form of caretaking)


• Ice princesses, snow queens (cold characters who may or may not succumb to melting; need not be female)


• Immobilization and/or helplessness


• Insanity (involuntary or false committal; characters appearing insane when their beliefs or fears are real; sedation and restraints; asylums; dementia; therapy)


• Intercrural or interfemoral sex (i.e., thrusting cock between partner's thighs)


• Intimacy


• Intoxication and altered states (aphrodisiacs; drugs or alcohol; sex pollen/spores; substances or devices that create arousal, affection, or dependency; speaking or showing the truth while intoxicated; visionary states)


• Jewelry (decorative and/or symbolic; wedding rings; earrings; slave bracelets; piercings)


• Kissing, necking


• Loss of control (emotional, physical, situational, erotic, etc)


• Love/hate relationship


• Make-up sex or reunions


• Master and slave (erotic or romantic slavery, or otherwise; see Power issues)


• Masturbation (solitary or as performance)


• Messiness and markers of arousal (mussed hair; flushed cheeks; swollen mouth; displaying bite marks or hickeys; clothes in disarray; sprawling; come-spattered skin)


• Mindfuck, mindgames


• Multiple orgasms (See also Sexual appetite or excess)


• Multiple partners (sequential/serial sexual encounters; orgies, gang-bangs, or group sex; puppy-pile cuddling; see also Sexual appetite or excess)


• Neck fetishization (nape of the neck, throat, hickeys, etc)


• Nipple play or torture


• Noise (screaming or yelling during sex; whimpering or sobbing; purring, growling; slurping or moaning enthusiastically during blow-jobs)


• Non-consensual or semi-consensual sex (sexual extortion; bribery; reluctant or ambivalent partner; bondage and struggle; no means yes; other consent issues)


• Oral fixation or fetishization (lips, tongue, or whole mouth; french-kissing; licking; oral displays using food or beer bottles; smoking cigarettes, cigars, or pipes; biting or chewing one's lip(s))


• Orgasm denial


• Otherness and outsiders (alien identity or transformation; mutants; demons and angels; hermaphrodites; eccentrics; elves and other magical beings; exoticism; half-human hybrids, e.g., the offspring of humans with demons, vampires, aliens, elves; racial difference in general; clones; twins; see also Secret identity; Special powers; Exoticism)


• Pain (with or without pleasure/endorphins)


• Pampering (spoiling someone rotten with gifts or money; physical pampering such as massage and grooming; giving someone a novel or unexpected degree of emotional or sexual care; catering to someone's every whim, e.g., someone who is in the hospital; harems as settings for pampering)


• Physical imperfections (scars or burns; heaviness; outsized features such as ears or nose; jolie-laide/ugly-beautiful characters)


• Possessiveness or jealousy


• Preferential treatment (e.g., making a point of showing respect towards someone when no one else does; showing a soft side only to them)


• Prostitutes (call-girls and hookers; rent boys and hustlers; escorts; paying one's way through school with sideline hooking; juvenile past on the streets)


• Public displays of affection, PDAs


• Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)


• Restraints (handcuffs, leather ties, chains, etc)


• Rimming or tongue-fucking


• Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)


• Sadism or sadomasochism


• Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)


• Scars or scarification


• Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing; see also Courting)


• Sex in public or semi-public places


• Sex in vehicles (cars, taxis, limos; planes or space shuttles; motorcycles; carnival rides)


• Sex on, against, or under furniture


• Sex standing up (including against a wall)


• Sex with clothes still on or partly on


• Sexual appetite or excess (hypersexuality, i.e., high sex drive; sex addiction or compulsive behavior; short/no refractory period; multiple orgasms; multiple partners; indiscriminate sex or sluttishness)


• Sexual discovery (of one's orientation; of new kinds of pleasure; of one's partner)


• Sexual experience or expertise (high number of partners; wide variety of sexual experience; demonstrating experience by taking the lead in sex or teaching one's partner)


• Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to come; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; inability of two people to touch)


• Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers)


• Sharing (sharing a beer bottle, joint, or bucket of popcorn; loaning someone clothes; a character letting someone stay in their home; sharing confidences; sharing a woman)


• Shyness (embarrassment; blushing or stammering; body shyness or dysmorphic disorder; cultural modesty)


• Silence (slave silence; silence as an erotic element in sex; trying to be silent during semi-public sex; going nonverbal or speechless with arousal; traumatic mutism; selective mutism; sign language; gestures used to convey feelings rather than words; see also Clams)


• Sixty-nine (69)


• Size queens


• Slavery (see Master and slave)


• Sleep and bedding themes (sharing a bed by necessity, such as in a hotel with only one room left; sharing a sleeping bag for warmth; sex while drowsy or sleeping; sex as a sleep aid; autonomic arousal from proximity; morning wake-up sex, falling asleep against someone's shoulder; watching someone sleep; dreams; nightmares; dream lovers, e.g., succubi; exotic or romantic beds, e.g., canopied; furs as bedding; silk sheets)


• Spooning


• Talking and communication issues (dirty talk or verbal seduction; sweet talking; reciting poetry; talking someone to orgasm; talking during sex; pillow talk; phone sex; speech becoming broken as one is aroused or upset; being inarticulate or articulate; aphasia; talking fast; miscommunication and misunderstandings in general; lack of a shared language; see also Silence; Clams; Voice fetishization)


• Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)


• Touching (stroking and caressing; cuddling or nuzzling; huddling for warmth; hugging; holding hands in public; touching as UST; brief brushes of contact either deliberate or accidental; PDAs; thighs brushing under a table; comic physical entanglements; someone gripping a wounded character's hand)


• Toys and devices (sex toys of all kinds; feathers, ice cubes, hot wax, etc)


• Undressing (undressing in front of someone for the first time; one character undressing another; fumbling clumsily to get undressed; stripteases)


• Urgency for sex (begging to suck cock; desperate to fuck; greedy bottom)


• UST (unresolved sexual tension)


• Vaginal penetration (e.g., deep dicking)


• Vampires


• Violent and dark natures (sadists; assassins and murderers; sociopaths who make twisted, scary displays of affection, conflating love and violence; criminals and villains in general; characters who are ruthless, merciless, casually vengeful; soulless demons or vampires; monsters in general)


• Voyeurism and vision themes (character A secretly watches B and C have sex; character A is forced to watch B and C have sex; character A watches character B perform/masturbate; viewing one's beloved in general; taking pictures or video; eye contact, especially as flirting; establishing authority with a look; closing eyes as a trust gesture; character A feeling that character B truly sees him, when no one else does; the quality of light, e.g., characters lit by moonlight or candlelight, or gilded by the setting sun; being in the dark; temporary or permanent blindness; gazes as objectification)


• Washing (washing one's partner, body or hair; bubble baths; shower scenes; slave service in bath; cleaning/cleansing someone who's been raped, degraded, or who is injured)


• Weapon fetishization (gun fu; trademark weaponry: Lara Croft's dual pistols, Duncan's katana; exotic weapons: war fans, whips; embedded: Wolverine's claws; magical/symbolic: Sting, Excalibur, Narsil; sentient or empathic; hiding a multitude of weapons on one's body; concealment in general: derringer in garter, boot knife; see other individual listings; Military fetishization)


• Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)